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Today’s Appetizer: Daddy — How to Boost Literacy (and Love) at Lunchtime

One simple strategy that I’ve faithfully pursued during the preschool years is “Bento Notes.” (In Japan, a “bento” is a boxed lunch.) Preschool here starts at 3 years of age and ends at 6—with no separate year for kindergarten—so that means three years of these little lunchtime notes for both Lulu and Roy.

Early on, I tried producing the notes one by one, each morning, but that quickly proved tiresome and the idea was nearly derailed. So I sat down and prepared a small stack of notes in one go, enough for a month or two of lunches, and that’s the way I’ve done it ever since. I then give the notes to Keiko and have her tape them, one each day, to the lunchbox lid.

From ABC to full sentences

Of course, at age 3, neither of my kids could really read yet, but I thought it best to adopt this practice right from the start so it would become a firm habit for both the children and for myself. Basically, the content of the notes has reinforced the sort of content we’ve been working on at home, and has matched their rising language level.

I began by simply writing one letter of the alphabet on a slip of paper, accompanied by my own quick drawing of an animal (or object) which starts with that letter—like the letter C with a picture of a cat. After going through the whole alphabet this way, I moved on to short words (with and without pictures), eventually combining such words into short sentences. Over time, the sentences then became longer until finally, by their third year in preschool, the notes have come to look like this:

Lulu, what are you eating for lunch today? Mommy made a good lunch for you! Love, Daddy

Lulu, I’m going to give you a big hug when I come home from work tonight! Love, Daddy

Lulu, you’re a fast runner! Maybe you can run faster than a cheetah! Love, Daddy

Roy, I like reading books to you and I like it when you read books to me! Love, Daddy

Roy, after you finish your lunch, why don’t you give your teacher a tickle? Love, Daddy

Roy, what did you do this morning? Did you fly to the moon in a rocket? Love, Daddy

The benefits of “Bento Notes”

As you can see, the notes are fairly short, and make up a mix of the serious and the silly. The preschool teachers have told me that the kids seem to look forward to their note from Daddy for that day, and have even shared it with others in the class, offering them a Japanese translation. In this way, the notes have served four aims: 1) they provide an additional opportunity to practice reading; 2) they encourage the kids to translate for authentic communication; 3) they offer some amusement (in silly mode) and thoughtful messages (in serious mode); and 4) they remind Lulu and Roy of my feelings for them, even while we’re apart.

To my mind, these benefits far outweigh the modest amount of time it takes me to prepare the notes. (And when I’m writing sentences, I can do it pretty quickly by using the computer, printing them out, and cutting them apart.)

Next year, though, both kids will be in elementary school, where the children eat a school lunch, not a lunch from home. I’m now wondering how I might adapt the idea of “Bento Notes” so I can continue providing them with personal messages on a regular basis—as well as all the benefits that go along with this practice.

See my follow-up to this post at How Messages in the Minority Language Can Boost Literacy (and Much More).

How about you? Have you made use of personal notes for your children? In what ways?
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5 Responses

  1. I love your approach, my son was one of those children that would stop at every single lantern to read the Missing Cat/Dog signs (even though it was exactly the same on each lantern) but I learned to build in time to allow him this constructive repetition.

    In terms of reading, I sometimes write notes on my bedroom door, the one he keeps fixing back onto it from the back of the door says “Morning Finn, hope you slept well, if this door is closed Mummy and Daddy are still asleep, why not creep upstairs and play all on your own, I’ll come up for a BIG hug when I wake up, love you, Mummy”

    1. Corinne, thanks for your kind comment. Yes, “constructive repetition” is really important when it comes to fostering language development. (But it does take patience!)

      And that note you shared is lovely! Writing regular messages at home is something I’m trying to do more of these days.

  2. Dear Adam,

    Were you ever able to find an equivalent that worked for your children past this age?

    1. Christina, “captive reading” is a strategy that I’ve used in a variety of ways (like with these bento notes) throughout the years. Please see this page at The Bilingual Zoo for full details and relevant links.

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