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Recommended Resources: “Bilingual: Life and Reality” by François Grosjean

February 12, 2014

Note: Below my review of Bilingual: Life and Reality is a short, insightful interview with the author. Dr. Grosjean kindly responded, via email, to several questions I had in connection with his book.

Bilingual: Life and RealityAn irony is apparent in the fact that bilingualism is so prevalent in our world today—and will surely become even more widespread in the future—and yet, on the whole, the subject is discussed far less than might be expected. Granted, there are some books and blogs geared to parents raising bilingual children; some books, journals, and sites more academic in nature; and some coverage in the media (which seems to be increasing). Still, this attention feels disproportionately small when the phenomenon of bilingualism now touches more than half of the human family.

One unfortunate consequence of this situation is the significant lack of understanding among the general public when it comes to bilingualism. Raising bilingual children can be challenging enough without the additional obstacles presented by misguided input from others who are often only repeating “myths” that have continued to persist despite hard evidence to the contrary.

Debunking such myths of bilingualism (like “Bilingualism will delay language acquisition in children” or “Bilingualism has negative effects on their development”) is at the heart of François Grosjean’s lively and informative book Bilingual: Life and Reality. Dr. Grosjean, Professor Emeritus at the University of Neuchâtel in Switzerland and a noted international authority in the field, seeks to demystify the nature of bilingualism through personal anecdote and persuasive research, ultimately producing the best, most comprehensive primer on the subject for parents wishing to broaden their knowledge of these issues.

Those familiar with Dr. Grosjean’s blog, Life as a Bilingual, at the Psychology Today website will recognize his graceful style in explaining what can be difficult subject matter in clear, friendly prose. Even when discussing complex issues, the book remains readable and engaging.

Bilingual: Life and Reality is divided into two main sections: Part 1: Bilingual Adults; and Part 2: Bilingual Children. For parents raising their children with two or more languages, the first part provides a larger context for the bilingual journey—since our bilingual children will be bilingual adults before we know it!—while the second part addresses issues involving bilingual child-rearing more directly.

In this second section, which includes such chapters as “Acquiring Two Languages,” “Family Strategies and Support,” and “Effects of Bilingualism on Children,” Dr. Grosjean looks at a range of issues involved in raising bilingual children and offers sound and useful guidelines for parents.

For instance, in “Acquiring Two Languages,” Dr. Grosjean explores the nature of children learning two languages at the same time (simultaneous bilingualism) and two languages sequentially (successive bilingualism) then underscores his discussion with this practical conclusion which lies at the heart of bilingual success:

“In sum, the crucial factors for becoming bilingual as a child, at whatever age, are the need for the new language, as well as the amount and type of input, the role of the family and the schools, and the prevailing attitudes toward the language and the culture and toward bilingualism as such.”

François Grosjean has long been a champion of raising awareness of bilingualism, and with this important book he has performed an invaluable service in seeking to dispel the many lingering myths which can burden the experience of raising or working with bilingual children.

Bilingual: Life and Reality is a wise, warm overview of the subject and I recommend it highly, not only to parents and teachers, but to the general public as well. Dr. Grosjean’s book is a much-needed resource for homes and libraries, and I hope it will be read widely and help advance accurate, positive perceptions of bilingualism around the world.

Questions for François Grosjean

After reading Bilingual: Life and Reality, I was curious to learn more about the myths of bilingualism, so I reached out to Dr. Grosjean. He was kind enough to respond to my questions in enlightening detail.

François GrosjeanDr. Grosjean, in your book you mention a variety of persistent myths involving bilingualism. Why do you think these negative perceptions have been so difficult to dispel?
I strongly believe that accepting bilingualism as it is has been hindered by a view of the world founded on the nation-state concept, that is, one nation, one language, one culture. For centuries, it was accepted that societies were, in fact, multilingual and multicultural, as were many of their inhabitants. But then, in the 19th Century and early 20th Century, it was felt by many that nations couldn’t be nations if they didn’t have just one culture and one language. The social and human sciences espoused this view for a number of years and hence they concentrated their studies on people who were monolingual and monocultural. Many myths such as that bilingualism is a rare phenomenon, bilinguals have equal and perfect knowledge of their languages, mixing languages is a sign of laziness, bilinguals have double or split personalities, bilingualism has negative effects on the development of children, etc. are the by-products of this monolingual/monocultural bias.

From your perspective, would you say that the tide is turning when it comes to these myths and global attitudes toward bilingualism?
I am convinced that the tide is slowly turning, but for the time being it is still a groundswell led by individuals such as academics (new generations of linguists, psychologists and sociologists), parents, concerned citizens, and, of course, bi- and multilinguals themselves. It will take time for “monolingual” societies to change profoundly so that, one day, they will acknowledge officially that they are made up of monolingual, bilingual and multilingual citizens, who belong to one or to several cultures. Some have already reached that point; others are on the way; others still have hardly started.

What advice would you offer to parents who are facing difficulties as a result of others’ negative perceptions of their desire to raise bilingual children?
I’ll answer more as a concerned citizen than as an academic. First, I would read up a bit about bilingualism so as to understand a number of basic facts about acquiring, and living with, two or more languages. This will not only help parents of bilingual children in their everyday efforts to make, and keep, their children bilingual, but it will also help them respond to questions, some negative, that others might ask.

Second, I would join support groups, in the real world or on the web, so as to talk about aspects related to bringing up children with two or more languages. Any support one can get is crucial when raising bilingual children.

Third, I would get involved in the functioning of my local school, if at all possible, to get it to be more open to bi- and multilingualism and to think about improving its second language offerings and even opening up immersion (dual language) classes. The time children spend in school, and the influence they receive from teachers and peers, have a profound impact on whether these bilingual children maintain their bilingualism or shift over to monolingualism.

Try my fun quiz based on information found in Dr. Grosjean’s book…

What Do You Know About Bilingualism? Take This Quiz and Test Your Knowledge!

And learn the remarkable personal story of his life at…

What You Don’t Know About François Grosjean

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1 Ingeborg February 12, 2014 at 5:11 pm

Ingeborg in Norway

Girl 3, boy 5

Norwegian, English, (and a bit of Ateso)

Raising bilingual children is fascinating!

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2 Tatiana Marza February 12, 2014 at 9:25 pm

Tatiana in Greece
Boy, 3 years old
Greek, Romanian, Russian, English
Raising a bilingual child is like indulging yourself with a great piece of chocolate cake!
Really, after many efforts it comes the period of satisfaction and fun. And I said “indulging” because I enjoy having conversations with my son, while nobody understands us! :)

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3 Justin February 12, 2014 at 9:52 pm

Justin in Russia

Girl, 6 weeks

Russian, English

Raising bilingual children is still a mystery to me. Honestly, even though I’m following most of the ‘rules’, I still feel like I’m flapping in the breeze most of the time.

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4 Aleksandra February 12, 2014 at 10:00 pm

Aleksandra in Germany
Girl, 2 and Boy, 9 months
Polish, English and German
Raising bilingual children is fun. :)

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5 Anabel February 12, 2014 at 10:00 pm

Anabel in Spain
Boy, 10 months
English and Spanish
Raising bilingual children is the most challenging and satisfying thing I’ve done in my life. There’s nothing like that rewarding feeling when I said to my son “Clap your hands” and he replied by clapping his hands fervently. It was worth all the effort :-)

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6 Maria Godfrey February 12, 2014 at 10:10 pm

Maria in Glasgow, Scotland
Boy, 4 and a half years old
Spanish and English
Raising bilingual children is a great adventure, with ups and downs but worth it at the end. I like my wee boy and I spend time together, we joke and chat in Spanish while my husband is clueless about our special bond.????

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7 Anna February 12, 2014 at 10:38 pm

Anna in England
Boy, 2 years
English and German
Raising bilingual children is exciting as I never know what my son comes out with next – will it be English, will it be German, who knows? :-)

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8 Vesna February 13, 2014 at 12:08 am

1. Vesna in Serbia
2. Boy, 5 months old
3. Serbian and French (German and English)
4. Raising bilingual children is making our lives richer and better in every way.

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9 Pia February 13, 2014 at 4:10 am

1. Pia in Italy
2. Girl, 3 years old
3. Italian and English
4. Raising bilingual children is challenging but worth it.

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10 Mayken February 13, 2014 at 5:34 am

Mayken in Paris
girl, three and a half
German and French
Raising bilingual children is so funny during the “mixing” stage when they fit words from both/all languages together like a puzzle and out comes a perfectly logical sentence!

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11 Jolanta February 13, 2014 at 6:13 am

Jolanta from Northern Ireland
girl of 16 months
English and Polish
Raising bilingual children is hard work at this stage because we never know what language she is trying to say a word in. :)

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12 Adelaida February 13, 2014 at 6:23 am

Adelaida in the US.
Boy, 2 1/2
Spanish and English (Some Tagalog from grandma)

Raising a bilingual child is my obligation and my gift to my child.

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13 Margarita February 13, 2014 at 6:23 am

1. Margarita in Greece
2. Girl – 8, boy – 6
3. Polish and Greek
4. Raising bilingual children is a challenge and satisfaction.

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14 Jeannie February 13, 2014 at 6:48 am

Jeannie, Virginia USA
Girl, 6 months
English and French
Raising bilingual children is so much harder than I ever thought it would be, but I know it is going to be worth every headache the first time I hear her utter a French word. :)

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15 Akiko February 13, 2014 at 11:39 am

1. Akiko in Australia
2. Boy, 1 year old
3. Japanese and English
4. Raising bilingual children is my major project and adventure with my son. It’s just great to be able to communicate with him in my language. I believe it also opens up more possibilities and opportunities to him.

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16 Judy February 13, 2014 at 2:54 pm

Judy in Australia
Girl, 8 months
Mandarin and English
Raising bilingual children is a great challenge, but an extremely rewarding adventure.

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17 April February 13, 2014 at 8:18 pm

1. April in the UK
2. Girl 10, boy 7
3. French and English
4. Raising bilingual children, while fascinating, rewarding, and fun, takes a lot of time, money, and patience, and you still often end up feeling guilty and inadequate.

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18 Jonathan February 14, 2014 at 1:29 am

1. Jonathan in Wales
2. Boy, 10 months
3. English and Welsh
4. Raising bilingual children is a fun and worthwhile challenge.

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19 Claudia February 14, 2014 at 4:30 am

Claudia in Germany
a boy, nearly 4, and a girl, 1
German and English
Raising bilingual children is challenging, as we are a monolingual German family living in Germany. However, some days are great when he (so far only our boy talks of course) says something new or as happened last week he corrects my English. 😉

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20 marina February 14, 2014 at 12:29 pm

Marina, from Brasil
Boy, 2 years old
English and Portuguese
Raising bilingual children is being surprised (each and every day) with their learning abilities. Is getting amazed, proud and excited with each new word said and their effort in expressing themselves. It’s one of the best experiences I’m having as a mother. I have never imagined it would be such a bliss!

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21 kiara February 14, 2014 at 10:58 pm

Kiara in Italy
Viola, 3 y.o ; Matteo 2 y.o.
Italian, English, Spanish
Raising bilingual children is feeling proud of what you are doing in your life for your only reason of life: your children. Feeling useful and happy.

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22 Steffen Eckart February 15, 2014 at 9:37 pm

Steffen in Tokyo, Japan
Boy, 7 years old
Japanese and English
Raising bilingual children is a journey which, while I could not have imagined in my younger days, is an experience for which I am grateful.

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23 Saprina February 16, 2014 at 12:40 am

Saprina in Japan
Boy, 3 years 4 months and Girl, 10 months
Nepali and English
Raising bilingual children is a big challenge.

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24 Kikirime February 16, 2014 at 1:41 am

Marta living in Germany
Boy (5 years old) Girl (1 year old)
German and Spanish
Raising bilingual children is more difficult that I thought but well worth it.

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25 Sheri February 16, 2014 at 4:31 pm

Sheri in Japan
Boy, 11 years old
Japanese and English
Raising a bilingual child is definitely a challenge but one I need to step up to. I want to increase my efforts to help my son be able to do more in English.

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26 Marta February 16, 2014 at 5:31 pm

Marta in Italy
English, Bulgarian, Italian
Girl, 1 and a half years old
Raising a bilingual child is a big challenge but, in the end, she will win the opportunity to be a citizen of the world.

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27 Patrick February 16, 2014 at 7:00 pm

Patrick in Brittany
Girl: 3 years old
Boy: 3 months old
Raising a bilingual child is FUN!

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28 Lyndsay February 16, 2014 at 7:04 pm

Lyndsay in Spain
Boy, 4 months
English and Spanish
Raising bilingual children is an exciting adventure, one which I hope my son will enjoy and appreciate in the years to come!

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29 Diana February 16, 2014 at 7:59 pm

Diana, UK
Twin girls, four months
Russian and English
Raising bilingual children is a very precious gift you are giving to your kids, and to yourself too!

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30 Elena February 16, 2014 at 10:08 pm

Elena in Belarus
Boy, 2
Russian and English
Raising bilingual children is as challenging as it is rewarding, as unexpected as it is planned, as serious as it is fun.

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31 Christina February 16, 2014 at 10:08 pm

Christina from Northern Ireland but living in China
No children yet but teach Grade 1 Bilingual Japanese-English class and am (more than) bilingual myself :)
English, Japanese, Chinese and Italian
Raising bilingual kids is seeing exciting opportunities for learning everywhere we look.

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32 Corey February 16, 2014 at 10:25 pm

Corey, chillin in Hokkaido, Japan
little boy, 7 months old
Raising bilingual children is a trip and a half and so far worth every step of the way. It is another avenue down which a parent can create even deeper connections and bonds with their kids.

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33 Maxence February 16, 2014 at 10:59 pm

Maxence from France
no children (yet!)
French, English, Japanese (and to some level: German, Korean, Spanish)
Raising bilingual children is a very important thing to do to prepare them for the future in a very multicultural and multilingual world, and although it will require serious commitment it will all be for the best.

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34 Tania February 17, 2014 at 12:01 am

Tania in New York State, USA
Kids: Boy, 6 and Girl, 4
English and Spanish
Raising bilingual children is not happening the way I thought it would!

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35 Emanuela February 17, 2014 at 1:26 am

Emanuela in England
Boys, 5 and 8 years old
Italian & French (with English)
Raising bilingual children is natural! Really, I’d always wanted bilingual (trilingual…!) children.

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36 Sara Rognoni February 17, 2014 at 5:43 am

1. Sara in UK
2. Girl, 3 years and Boy, 9 months
3. Italian, English, Spanish
4. Raising trilingual children is very rewarding to me as a parent and I am very proud of my little girl when she really tries and speaks my language.

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37 Jane February 17, 2014 at 9:52 am

1. Jane in Japan
2. Boy, 21 months
3. English and Japanese
4. Raising my son to be bilingual is a challenge, but fascinating, rewarding and extremely worthwhile. It’s extraordinary to see him already use both languages, and I’d love to know why he chooses the words/phrases he does!

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38 Hiroki Matsuuchi February 17, 2014 at 1:34 pm

1. Hiroki in Tokushima, Japan
2. Boy (3 months)
3. Japanese & English (of the American variety)
4. ‘Raising bilingual children’ is a topic about which I am eager to increase my knowledge.

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39 Rikaine February 17, 2014 at 2:58 pm

1. Rikaine – Catacamas, Honduras
2. Three girls (14, 11, 8)
3. Spanish & English
4. Raising bilingual children is razzle, dazzle amusement & enjoyment!

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40 Jennifer February 17, 2014 at 4:34 pm

1. Jennifer in Japan
2. One daughter, age 4.
3. English & Japanese (primary), Dutch & Italian (secondary), Spanish & French (tertiary)
4. Raising bilingual children is a family tradition.

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41 Galina / Trilingualchildren February 17, 2014 at 5:23 pm

1. Galina in Italy
2. Boy, 4.5 & Girl, 2.5 years old
3. Russian, Italian & English
4. “Raising bilingual children is a journey that neither you or your child can forget, so magical and colorful it is.” http://www.TrilingualChildren.com

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42 Barbara February 17, 2014 at 5:42 pm

Barbara in France
Boy, 9 and Girl, 7
French and English
Raising bilingual children is more challenging than what I expected, but so incredibly worth it!

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43 Betti February 17, 2014 at 6:30 pm

1. Betti in Hungary
2. Boy, age 1,5
3. English and Hungarian
4. Raising bilingual children is a rewarding challenge.

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44 Anu February 17, 2014 at 8:21 pm

Anu in England
Girl, 8 weeks
Finnish and English
Raising bilingual children is very exciting, challenging and fun. I truly hope I succeed in giving this unique gift to my daughter.

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45 Susanne February 17, 2014 at 10:01 pm

Susanne in Scotland
Girl, 2.5yrs
English and German
Raising a bilingual child is a strenuous privilege. Many of my friends have enviously pointed out their inability to do the same. I feel that it is really part of our journey. I hope to meet many more supportive travellers on the way, and I will be sure to remember to keep stocking up the supplies :) and I’m not getting hung up about the results. As long as we have fun on the way, I know I have already switched her brain on to other ways of doing things, and the musicality and richness of the spoken word.

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46 christine February 18, 2014 at 1:59 am

1. Christine in Canada
2. boy (almost 5) & girl (4 months)
3. French, German & English
4. Raising multilingual children is a gift & a challenge (in almost equal measure).

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47 Amelia February 18, 2014 at 3:50 am

Amelia in Norway
My grandson, age 17 months
English and Norwegian
Raising bilingual children is filled with many uncertainties, but is one of the greatest gifts you can give your children.

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48 Jennifer February 18, 2014 at 8:16 am

Jennifer in Nevada, USA
Daughter (8), son (4)
Spanish and English
Raising bilingual children is much harder than I expected. Before I had kids I assumed by hearing both languages from birth, they would be naturally bilingual, speaking both languages equally well. This is not the case when being raised in a monolingual culture.

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49 Janelle McNeill February 18, 2014 at 9:14 am

Janelle in Osaka
3.5 year old daughter
ENGLISH and JAPANESE
RAISING Bilingual Children feels FUN and DELIGHTFUL. The emergence of DUAL dimensions of identity, perception, and connections with TWO homes is already so fascinating. ONCE schooling begins, I am sure there will be angles of unknowns that I must face with a relaxed and open heart. MY passion and curiosity for LIFE in Japan, my bilingual competencies, and my qualifications as a teacher, will hopefully provide a great canvas of possibility for my daughter’s personal narrative. I’m very optimistic. It’s a beautiful process.

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50 Ella February 18, 2014 at 2:57 pm

1. Elaine in USA
2. Girl – 19 months
3. Russian and English
4. Raising bilingual children is a hard but rewarding work!

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51 Rafa February 18, 2014 at 6:19 pm

Rafa in Spain
3,5 yo boy and 8 month girl
Spanish and English
Raising bilingual children is a non-stop challenge, full of funny moments and unique experiences.

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52 Joanna February 18, 2014 at 9:48 pm

Joanna in Japan
Girl, 12 months
Polish and Japanese
Raising bilingual children is still a great unknown to me.

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53 Peter Keen February 20, 2014 at 7:48 pm

Peter in Japan
1 Girl (11), 2 boys (9, 7)
Japanese and English
Raising bilingual children is a gift from my wife and me to our kids, our parents, and ourselves. One of the saddest things I’ve ever had to do was sit between my Canadian friend and his Japanese grandmother and translate for them. My kids will find and pursue their own language goals as they grow up, but my goal, and the reason for all this effort, is just to give them the most basic gift – the ability to talk to their grandmas and grandpas.

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54 emilia February 21, 2014 at 7:59 pm

1. Emilia in Italy
2. girl 11 yo, boy 10 yo, girl 2 yo
3. Spanish and Italian (and some English and German)
4. Raising bilingual children is the greatest idea I had in recent years! I only wish I had much more time to spend with my kids! It is an entertaining project for all of us at home I strongly hope I won’t get tired of!

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55 Soo February 22, 2014 at 5:01 am

1. Soo, USA
2. Girl 4, Boy 2
3. Korean, English
4. Raising bilingual children is not something that I really gave much thought to before I had children, but now that I’ve embraced this epic journey to bilingualism, I can’t imagine having raised them without it and all the little riches it has brought to our lives.

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56 Adriana Zoder February 22, 2014 at 12:13 pm

Adriana in USA
Boy, 6 Girl, 3
English, Romanian, French, Spanish, Latin
Raising bilingual children comes naturally to me. I can’t imagine not speaking to my children in Romanian. A part of me will always be Romanian, expressing my thoughts in Romanian.

I want to share that part with my children. I feel that I would keep back a lot of what makes me “me” if I did not communicate with them in Romanian.

And seeing them understand it and begin to use it is exhilarating. There’s no better feeling in this world.

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57 azadeh February 22, 2014 at 3:20 pm

1. Azadeh in Iran
2. Boy, 13 months
3. Persian, English

Raising Bilingual Children is the very best gift parents would give to their children forever.

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58 Michele Cherie February 22, 2014 at 4:12 pm

Michele in Oregon, USA
Girl, 4, and boy, 2
French and English
Raising bilingual children is an intentional, ongoing adventure!

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59 Frances February 23, 2014 at 4:10 pm

Frances in Japan
Girl, 4 years old
English and Japanese
Raising bilingual children is fascinating, overwhelming at times, and it’s a privilege to have the opportunity to do so.

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60 Erinn February 23, 2014 at 5:16 pm

1. Erinn in Japan
2. Girls: 20 and 16, Boys: 18 and 7
3. Japanese and English
4. Raising bilingual children is a lifelong adventure and challenge.

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61 Loveday February 23, 2014 at 6:23 pm

Loveday in Holland
Boy, 2 years old
Raising a bilingual child fills me with amazement, awe and envy.

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62 James Grant February 23, 2014 at 6:26 pm

1. James in Germany
2. Boy 2
3. German, English
4. Raising bilingual children is just getting started but I am concerned already at my lack of attention in this area.

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63 Erin February 23, 2014 at 6:41 pm

Erin in Russia
3 boys: 5, 7, 10 and 1 girl 10 months
Russian and English
Raising bilingual children is an adventure and the story of my life!

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64 Miho kanda February 23, 2014 at 9:12 pm

1: Miho in Japan
2: 6 years girl
3: Japanese and English
4: Raising a bilingual child is such a great opportunity to learn other cultures, history and events not only for kids but also parents themselves. It must be really tough work if you live in a monocultural country with a single language. The harder we work, the wider kid’s world gets.

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65 Boukje February 23, 2014 at 9:37 pm

1. Boukje in Osaka, Japan
2. Girl (2), boy (5 months)
3. Dutch and Japanese
4. Raising bilingual children is an interesting journey.

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66 kim February 23, 2014 at 10:13 pm

Kim in England
Two boys 7 months and 3 years old
French and English
Raising bilingual children is a challenge which has become much more important to me than I ever imagined.it has made me understand my mother better who did the same for us when we were children.

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67 Esther February 23, 2014 at 10:18 pm

Esther in Madrid
Girl 8 and boy 6
Spanish and Dutch
Raising bilingual children is challenging and rewarding!

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68 Jeremy Aldrich February 23, 2014 at 10:20 pm

Jeremy in the United States
Baby expected at end of June!
English, Esperanto, French, Spanish (working on our family language plan for which languages to emphasize and to what proficiency goals)
Raising bilingual children is an act of love, and being thoughtful about it is surprisingly uncommon!

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69 Natacha February 24, 2014 at 12:00 am

Natacha in England
Two girls, 7 months and 3 years old
French and English
Raising bilingual children is extremely difficult when you don’t manage to spend time together (on a one to one basis).

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70 Lisa in Scotland February 24, 2014 at 4:38 am

Lisa in Scotland
Girl (7), Boy (4)

Scottish Gaelic, English, Welsh, Swedish, German

Raising bilingual children is a privilege. We are so fortunate to have, in our overpoweringly English country, access to outstanding Gaelic Medium education in many of our state schools, from toddler groups to nursery, from Primary School to Secondary Education. Our parents’ generation could only have dreamed of this. We’re the lucky ones. The tide is definitely turning.

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71 Evan Jones February 24, 2014 at 8:10 am

Evan in Hyogo, Japan
Girl 13, boys 11 & 8
English and Japanese
Raising bilingual children remains a daily challenge, but I’m sure I’d feel guilty later in life had I not made the effort – not the best motivation, but it works at present.

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72 Michael February 24, 2014 at 8:46 am

Michael in Chiba, Japan
Boy, 18 months
English and Japanese
Raising bilingual children is a demanding yet hugely fulfilling challenge, of which our family is only just beginning!

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73 Gabriela Guarnerio February 24, 2014 at 10:40 am

Gabriela in Buenos Aires, Argentina
I’m 24 weeks pregnant! Baby is due in early June.
Spanish and English
Raising bilingual children is something I look forward to do as soon as I meet my baby. I already started to do so while in utero!

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74 Allen-Boris February 24, 2014 at 11:21 am

Allen in China
Boy, 1-Year-Old
Chinese and English (with two local dialects here)
Raising bilingual children is the nice gift to my son.

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75 Julie February 24, 2014 at 3:00 pm

Julie in Russia
Boy, 4 months
Russian and English
Raising a bilingual child is an adventure we are just starting out on, and one I am very excited about!

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76 Fabrizio February 24, 2014 at 6:25 pm

Fabrizio in Italy
Filippo is 14 months “young”
Italian, English, Spanish some French & a smattering of Portuguese
Raising bilingual children is a true adventure (and a lot of work). For the first time this weekend my son Filippo (who does not yet utter a word in neither Italian nor English) at my cries of “breakfast-breakfast!!” and “biscuits-biscuits!!” dashed to the kitchen and stopped below the cupboard where we keep our teas and biscuits, eagerly waiting for me to get busy! WOW…NOT easy but SOOO worth it!

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77 rosa volpe February 24, 2014 at 10:26 pm

Rosa in Italy
Boy 6; boy 4
Italian and English
Raising bilingual children is all a matter of love: no matter how hard, challenging and exhausting it is we will keep doing it because we love our children.

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78 Joy Yuasa February 24, 2014 at 10:42 pm

Joy in Japan
Baby on the way!
Japanese and English
Raising a bilingual child is my next big adventure!

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79 Angela February 24, 2014 at 10:51 pm

Angela in Italy
Girl, 7 and Boy, 4
English and Italian
Raising bilingual children is an amazing adventure – incredibly difficult, incredibly fun, and totally rewarding!

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80 Armelle February 25, 2014 at 4:29 am

Armelle in the UK
Girls 3 and 5
English and French
Raising bilingual children is an amazing journey full of challenges but ever so rewarding!

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81 Kiona February 25, 2014 at 9:38 pm

Kiona from Brussels
Girl, 15 years old and Boy, 11 years old
Both ended up talking only French. Really a shame as I do speak French, Dutch, German, English and to some extent Japanese and the father
Chinese… So we could not make up a decision which should become the second language. Therefore they now both are musicians, one plays the violin and the other plays the piano.

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